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What Every Family Needs:

  1. Life Insurance on both parents.
  2. Disability Insurance on all wage earners.
  3. An emergency fund to cover at least 6 months of living expenses.
  4. A will that appoints guardians for the children and trustees to watch over their inheritance.
  5. A durable power of attorney.
  6. A healthcare proxy.
  7. A budget that is realistic & accurate
  8. A retirement account for both spouses.
  9. A committment to saving 20% of your household income.
  10. NO CREDIT CARD DEBT


Summer Eating for Less:

  1. Buy local produce in season - it's cheaper!
  2. Eat a homecooked meal outdoors instead of at a restaurant.
  3. Invite friends over for dessert instead of dinner.
  4. Eat less. Light meals are very satisfying in the summer heat.
  5. Drink more, spend less. Buy a water filter and drink water, or homemade tea instead of expensive, sugary drinks.

Strategic Moves to Beat Uncertainty

Are you worried about the economy, your husband’s job security, rising taxes, debt you already have? Uncertain times — they’re always just a heartbeat away. Are there things out of your control? Sure. But there are things you can control. Don’t miss this opportunity to take a good, hard look at your financial situation and change your strategy.

Budget Wisely. A budget is only as good as the information you put in it. That is why you have to keep track of everything that you spend and everything that you make. Only by tracking every little expense can you see where the “fat” is. Saving/investing must be a line item in your budget. Make room for it by cutting unnecessary expenses. Any contributions to an employer sponsored retirement plan would count toward the 10%.

Increase Job Security. One of the greatest fears during a recession is lay-offs. In addition, there are jobs that are being exported overseas. We can worry about this, and complain about this, but the situation won’t change. Take this time to formulate a Plan B, and be wise to the writing on the wall. If your husband’s job is always dangling by a thread, it’s time to look at the skills he has acquired and the contacts he has made. Can he transition into something else? Do his skills translate in another industry? Are there freelance or consulting opportunities available for either of you? Would an investment in more education or training improve job prospects? Look at the job classifieds for ideas on what is in demand and what qualifications are required. Is there a side business that can be started with little or no capital that you can help out with? Brain storm together, writing down everything you can think of, no matter how far-fetched it may seem. You may end up with a clear idea of where you both should be personally and professionally.

Pay Down Credit Card Debt. Get healthy and shed as much of this debt as you can. You should aim to pay off more than just the minimum and look to consolidate the debt to one lower rate card. Talk to your card company and try to negotiate a better rate. If you still have high rate cards, be sure to pay them off first. Of course, stop using credit cards for any new purchases.

Delay. Again if you are nervous about job security, or debt is creeping up on you, put off purchasing anything you don’t really need. Don’t eat out, don’t go on a vacation, don’t buy a new car, don’t indulge in anything that you would consider something you want (a manicure) versus a need (an annual check-up).

Like any time there is crisis, there’s a chance to examine your life and to truly grow and benefit from the experience. Make the most of this time; work with your husband to decide your next moves. It just may recession-proof (and divorce-proof) your life.

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September’s Calling

With school days drawing near I can’t help but celebrate the “newness” of the year.  September, and not January 1st, always feels like a time for resolutions: get the kids on track, get back in a routine, and get yourself on track.  Take this time to work on those things you let slip.  Have you been balancing the checkbook?  Have you been filing away your financial information in an efficient manner?   Do you have a retirement plan with an old employer that you keep meaning to rollover?  Use the beginning of the school year as a time to get productive in cleaning up, organizing and facing your finances.

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This week, let’s get organized. If you haven’t read “Protect Your Way of Life,” do so and make a list of what you need to take care of from these basics:

  • Have Wills updated and choose Guardians.
  • Set up a Durable Power Of Attorney.
  • Establish Healthcare Proxies.
  • Get Term Life Insurance on both spouses.
  • Get Disability Insurance on all income-earning spouses.
  • Build an Emergency Fund (6 months of income).
  • Establish Credit for yourself and be responsible with; clear up any past credit issues.
  • Contribute to an IRA or Roth IRA for yourself.
  • Organize all account information, passwords, and benefit details in one location.
  • Consider sources of income that you can tap while being a SAHM (using old or new skills).
  • Look to your future and make a plan (e.g., will you return to work, do you want to start a business) to lay the groundwork now.

Assign deadlines and get moving. Whether an “emergency” strikes or not, you’ll be relieved to get this behind you.

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Protecting Your Way of Life



Being a Stay-at-Home Mom probably challenges, frustrates, rewards and fulfills you in ways you never thought possible.  But, if you are a  “non-income earner” this role can also put you at great financial risk.  There are the horrible possibilities of being widowed or divorced, as well as the more likely problem of unemployment due to lay-offs or a disability.    So what can you do to protect yourself?

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Question of the Week


Dear Dina,

When we got married we agreed about the importance of my job in the home. We do not have kids yet, but will soon. Right now I am in school, so that I can position myself to teach music lessons out of the home. I do not work, but my husband is ok with this because he needs the support from home (basically, he wants me to manage the home-front). I feel like he is not familiar with how the housewife-thing works, although he wants to make it work. He manages all of the money, and gives me money when I ask for it. We have a bit of a power struggle at times, because I think we don’t have a “line drawn” as to whose job is what.

 

How do I assume this role and make him feel more comfortable with it? And being that we don’t have kids, is it right for me to be doing this now? Should I work until kids come in the picture? How can I best support my husband right now in regards to being a housewife in the modern world?

- SAHW 

 

Dear SAHW,

I think it is wonderful to be such a considerate wife, not taking for granted your arrangement, but wanting to do it to the best of your ability.  I personally think such a “partnership” with your husband is a good idea.  It doesn’t really matter if you work or not — that’s up to you and your husband to decide the best arrangement. Continue Reading >>>

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